First Impressions: Pick-Up Play, with Stefanos & Shay @ SF Citadel, San Francisco [19 September]

First Impressions: Pick-Up Play, with Stefanos & Shay

20:00 - 22:00

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SF Citadel
181 Eddy St, San Francisco, California 94102
“You never have a second chance to make a first impression” — it’s an oft repeated cliché because it’s true! Many crucial “firsts” go into pick-up play: poise, finding compatible partners, confident & empathetic negotiation, and reading your partner during the scene.

This highly interactive session focuses on connection and risk awareness. It is geared to both submissives/bottoms and tops/Doms, with opportunities to assess your negotiation skills, consider your limits, and participate in roleplay scenarios.

Stefanos & Shay will include demonstrations focused on meeting people for pick-up play, negotiation, dynamic bottoming, and body language.

(This class contains elements of demo, lecture, discussion, and class interaction.)

Class from 8-10pm, doors open at 7:30pm
Cost: $20 at the door, $15 in advance using PurplePass:

About the presenters:

Stefanos & Shay ( are a vivacious, unconventional D/s couple whose entertaining, information-packed classes have been called «better than a Vegas act.” They identify as pansexual polyamorous playsluts, purveyors of perversion, and alliteration fetishists! They are based in San Francisco, where they host over 60 events a year (including BENT, Twisted Windows, Master’s Den, Self-Suspension Open Space, & Bondage-a-Go-Go) and were named King & Queen of Pervert's Prom in 2006!

Shay is a director for Dark Odyssey: Surrender and writer/creator of bondage safety repository by night, as well as a prominent self-suspender known for unique, dynamic rigs and prodigious performances. Stefanos is all kink all the time as DM & CEO of Bondage-a-Go-Go, event manager at the SF Citadel, and former Producer/Steward of The Upper Floor on Together they have performed, presented, and hosted around the country and internationally.
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